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Author Topic: A professional in a small town, Having problems approaching women. Need advice  (Read 312 times)
David
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« on: May 04, 2009, 10:35:15 PM »

Long story short I have a professional job in a small town & am shy as well.  The area that I live in is really rural & I do not want to ruin my reputation.  I also do not want to seem desperate or stalkerish.

I notice quite a few attractive girls around here, but they are always at work.  For example cashiers at certain businesses. 

I am a very shy guy at first, until I know that a girl is interested.  I really have issues with rejection.  But once I know that a girl is interested I am good to go.

Top that off with the fact that Negative word would spread like wildfire & I do not want to get a rep for hitting on all of the girls.

I try to pay attention and look for signs/opportunities, I also try to make some sort of casual smalltalk when possible, but it is difficult. 

I have noticed one girl that normally would say only what she needed to say, going the extra mile to say things like "have a good one" or "take it easy".  I could be reading into this too much though.

Some of these girls are friends & clicky & all have myspace / facebook.  It is like all of these girls are best friends & so I have to be extra careful.

So my question is, will most normal girls try to throw out signs that they are interested over time?
Is there anything that I should be doing extra or looking for when interacting with them?
Does anyone have any tips that might help me in my situation?

Thank you for any input.
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« Reply #1 on: August 12, 2009, 07:24:43 PM »

Basic Dating Tips for Shy Guys


It is too important to look for some dating tips for shy guys, isn’t it? Yes, of curse, because, shy guys would be in emotional trouble, if they don’t have good tips and advice. In terms of getting familiar with each other, the profile is main source of information to know each other, take time to know each other well, before providing any important information that you think that may create any problem if the person is not faithful.

Flirting can also be a tip, if you know how to flirt well? Because it is the way to let the people say their nature. Well, flirting is absolutely funny thing if it is performed interestingly. You should never use the way of flirting that gives misunderstanding about you. I mean you shouldn’t be offensive while flirting.

Being alert and truthful is also a tip and it carries lot of weight in terms of dating. I’m sure that you would never want to have a doubtful relationship where is impossibility of truth. You want the girl who likes you for who you are. You should use your real picture regardless using someone else’s photo because truth will come out one day. Always start conversation positively not mentioning your problem. You may share your upset later, when you know each other well. Main thing in dating is to find the real partner whose interests match your interest. When you meet someone first time, you should look for the ways of talking as it is the first step. If you would try to copy someone’s other nature then it may be difficult for you when your partner will know your real face.

Above mentioned points would help shy guys a lot in making a girl interested. You should keep the conversation light and natural. Acting to be much smarter and stronger may not be good for those women who are looking for good relationship. First of all start slowly to make her interested in you. But, keep your profiles always interesting ensuring that it is your profile not of other person. These tips would help a shy guy attract girls and you would pass good time with her and you will enjoy your life.


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