I confessed to a girl in the same course in University. We knew each other for a month, and I confessed around June. She didn't give me an answer right away and she needs time, and asked me to confess again around October. During these months, we spent time doing projects as we're in the same group, and discuss studies. Sometimes we go out for movie with some friends. We sms everyday, and every weekend we'll chat on the phone for 2-3 hours. She even said that she looked forward to chat and meet me in the University, and that she liked me. She agreed to be my prom date, and had her parents fetch me so I could accompany her to the ballroom.

Everything seemed to be going fine, but suddenly one day she told me that she needs more time, and we should remain as friends first. I didn't receive the news nicely, and I was behaving a bit emotional as in I cried and such...But after that I apologized and she told me that I'll have to start from zero again. However, she starts avoiding me since, and we no longer chat on the phone, and even sms is kept to minimum. I changed, but she didn't give me the chance to prove it. And these goes on for weeks, suddenly one day she told me that we have different perspective and we're not suitable to be lovers. She asked me to pursue my dreams to transfer to Australia campus, and that there's plenty of girls out there, and we can only be friends. I tried so hard, I asked, just  not to decide to reject me completely, ask her to give me more time. I admit sometimes I'm a bit emotional (I meant sad and sensitive)...but...I've changed.

I'm willing to do anything to protect her, to make her laugh. Its been a hard time for me. I wish I could get her back, I meant, make her slowly starts to reconsider her decision again. I don't mind taking months and year. Its been almost a week since I didn't contact her. Few days later our exam results are going to be released, and another few more weeks later its her birthday and Christmas. Its holiday now, so should I sms her a wish and how should I form the sms? Then next year should I ask her to be in a same project group as me?

I agree with what pwah is saying.  It seems like you are coming on a bit strong, which can be a turn off.  There are plenty of fish / women in the sea!!!

Some women want what they cannot have etc.

I would chalk it up as a loss and a learning experience...

I'd not pursue her anymore really, but if she contacts you or you happen to bump into her don't be afraid to interact, but keep it low key.

Good luck and let us know what happens!

texting her and putting your self in the friends zone is your choice.  but don't be surprised if you get stuck in the friends zone.  Are you gonna be able to handle it if she goes out with another guy?

It is difficult I know.  Every woman is different and there is only one way to find out.  Do what you gotta do, it wont be the end of the world.  Like I said, there are plenty of nice women out there, don't get stuck on one, seriously!