This can be tricky. I too have had really bad luck with online dating.  Online dating is full of people who misrepresent themselves.

One thing that you could do is get with a one or two of your girlfriends and just get out.  Sometimes it is much easier with a "wingwoman/wingman".  I would not recommend just going to bars or anything like that, as those places are not the best for finding someone wanting more than a booty call.

I would try to make plans to do things that you really enjoy, you are bound to meet someone eventually.  Also do not be afraid to throw out a subtle sign if you might be interested in a guy.  Look for those signs that a guy might be interested on you and know when to act on it.

During the summer such as now, you could go to a pool or local swimming location.

For example a guy like me, I see a lot of women that I find attractive, yet I do not just go around hitting on them.  I do however look for these signs and feel that they are more of an invitation.

It is really difficult in my opinion, cause you don't want to force something.  If you get a good girlfriend to go out more with you, you might be more approachable.

Some women think that a guy should do all of the work, but keep in mind that it takes two.

Other ideas: playing pool, walking your dog, going to a park, experimenting with new hobbies, go camping with some of your girlfriends where there are other campers.  The most important thing is putting yourself out there.

I hope that this helps a bit, and that others can help you more.

Good Luck and please let us know if you come up with anything.

Well one dating site that I have found that is FREE is Plenty of Fish.  It seems to be no worse than any other dating site.  Just be careful as online dating appears to be a meat market.

Ya it can be more tough when doing the solo thing, but not impossible.

I do not think it is a matter of "What you do" as much as it is of just "being aware of opportunities".

Even something as simple as shopping can open up opportunities IMHO.

Pay attention at shopping centers, public events, anywhere, just think outside of the box!  Do not be afraid to "flirt" or express interest in someone.

I think most peoples problems is shyness or fear of rejection.

At least these are issues I am trying to get over.

In my view, look for any life partner would be easy if you look for in your surrounding areas like work place, street where you live in.

Look, first of all you have to know that what a girl want from a boy, it doesn't mean that you should be too handsome, not at all but you should be confident, and you can handle a girl smartly.

Every girl wants security so if she feel that you can't give her security and secure environment then she won't be with you.

Your reputation also matters, here how good you are in your socity how many people know you like this.