Hi everyone!
I prefer the advice of women of this but the men are welcome to give their input also.
Anyway, there's a girl I really like and I'm sure she knows because well I've told her. She didn't seem put off by it but at the same time she didn't seem to jump at it either. I've asked her out a couple of times but she always has "something come up" on the day. Usually I'd take a hint and back off but she keeps talking to me, getting my attention, invites me to her shows (she's in a band) and so on and so forth. I feel like I'm wasting my time here and I don't want to make her feel awkward with my advances if they're not welcome. So should I come out directly and ask her if pursuing her is a mistake?
I'm a guy, and personally I would like to think that if she really is interested she'd have made an attempt to set a date or something. But all women are different... she could be shy or not have the decency to tell you no.
Think about it like this. If you had a date set up or something and something came up on your end, you would try to set something up for later or something right?
I would lose interest fast in women who act like this one seems to.
These are just some of my thoughts, hopefully others can give better advice
