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on: March 05, 2010, 06:59:33 PM
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Started by krst451 - Last post by baggins
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I met this girl a few months ago. We'd been hanging out as part of a group for a while, then recently started just hanging out together and texting each other basically all day.
After a few weeks of this, I asked if she wanted to be more than friends, and she did. We went on two dates after that. After the first one, she went on about how much fun she had and how she couldn't wait to see me again. She seemed really excited about me in general ("I had so much fun last night" etc.). But, after the second one, I asked her if she had fun, but she just said she was "struggling with the more than friends thing".
I tried to give her some time to think, but I couldn't help it and started asking questions. The only reason she would give is that she "thought she liked me that way, but now she doesn't think she does". When I asked her what caused her to change her mind, she said "You're cute, interesting, nice, and funny, so I don't really know why I don't like you in that way."
So, I was just wondering if anyone could give me some insight into what could possibly be going through her mind. I don't understand how she can list a bunch of reasons to like me, but then say that she doesn't.
I'm just so confused, and I feel like there must be something she isn't telling me. It's like she instantly went from being all excited to "feeling awkward".
Most importantly, I'm wondering if there's any hope...
Thanks!
She sounds shady, it could be virtually anything, it could be something you said, how you did something, there could be another guy, she could be afraid to say why she doesn't like you that way, etc. Either way she doesn't like you that way, if it was me I would move on from this situation. There are plenty of other women out there to be had my friend. Be glad that you found out earlier than later. If she isn't into you, you really cannot force it. Women can be weird and impossible to fully understand. I'd say to talk to her, but it seems like you already had the important talk. Sorry, this is just my opinion. I'd move on. |
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on: March 05, 2010, 06:56:29 PM
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Started by date - Last post by date
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Thank you for choosing to join Dating Advice Forum baggins.
You are welcome to introduce yourself and start joining in our discussions!
By joining in some of our discussions and starting new topics you will help Dating Advice Forum become a better community!
I am looking forward to your posts and let us know if you have any problems.
Enjoy your stay here baggins
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on: March 05, 2010, 04:28:06 PM
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Started by date - Last post by date
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Welcome to DatingAdviceForum.net toullyJet.
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on: March 05, 2010, 12:42:06 PM
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Started by krst451 - Last post by krst451
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I met this girl a few months ago. We'd been hanging out as part of a group for a while, then recently started just hanging out together and texting each other basically all day.
After a few weeks of this, I asked if she wanted to be more than friends, and she did. We went on two dates after that. After the first one, she went on about how much fun she had and how she couldn't wait to see me again. She seemed really excited about me in general ("I had so much fun last night" etc.). But, after the second one, I asked her if she had fun, but she just said she was "struggling with the more than friends thing".
I tried to give her some time to think, but I couldn't help it and started asking questions. The only reason she would give is that she "thought she liked me that way, but now she doesn't think she does". When I asked her what caused her to change her mind, she said "You're cute, interesting, nice, and funny, so I don't really know why I don't like you in that way."
So, I was just wondering if anyone could give me some insight into what could possibly be going through her mind. I don't understand how she can list a bunch of reasons to like me, but then say that she doesn't.
I'm just so confused, and I feel like there must be something she isn't telling me. It's like she instantly went from being all excited to "feeling awkward".
Most importantly, I'm wondering if there's any hope...
Thanks!
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on: March 05, 2010, 12:41:18 PM
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Started by date - Last post by date
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Thank you for choosing to join Dating Advice Forum krst451.
You are welcome to introduce yourself and start joining in our discussions!
By joining in some of our discussions and starting new topics you will help Dating Advice Forum become a better community!
I am looking forward to your posts and let us know if you have any problems.
Enjoy your stay here krst451
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on: March 03, 2010, 03:07:23 AM
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Started by Xalex - Last post by Xalex
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Hey, i am a guy and i have recently read about the hard to get game. Now i understand the more things about how women acts but I have alot of questions because i am dating a girl and I am confused. So i was wondering, should I play hard to get, what happens if both play hard to get, how can I know if she is playing it and what should I do if she is playing it, should I play it too ? Finally, is there a way to dont play hard to get but to still don't look desesperate?
Thanks for your answers because I am really confused.
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on: March 03, 2010, 03:04:23 AM
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Started by date - Last post by date
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Welcome to DatingAdviceForum.net Xalex.
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on: March 01, 2010, 06:08:10 AM
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Started by Dasil - Last post by hellboy2599
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if you really like her...try to make frndship with her..then try to be her best frnd...then tell your feelings to her..
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on: March 01, 2010, 06:01:03 AM
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Started by date - Last post by date
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Welcome to DatingAdviceForum.net hellboy2599.
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on: February 28, 2010, 11:16:12 PM
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Started by sparklyfairy - Last post by sparklyfairy
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Need a little honest advice on what to do..... sometimes think friends are always too nice!
Basically, I met a guy through him coming into my work on the odd occasion related to work. Each time he's been in he's been really chatty and has asked how my holidays been, commented on me getting my hair done etc. Not sure if he's just being nice or if he likes me.
I'm really shy and never would have approached him, not sure even if he was single until I saw him recently on a dating website. About a week later I plucked up the courage to leave him a message but he'd removed his profile.
Really not sure what to do as firstly, i kind of need to wait until the work issue is out of the way first or it may make things quite awkward, however this may not be for a few months. Thing is, he seems like a lovely guy and I want to let him know I'm interested but I'm really not sure how as I don't know when he'll be back in my work, don't have a phone number for him etc.
Any advice? Would it look stalkerish if i left him a message on facebook or would you think that was kinda nice? Should I wait and see if he approaches me?
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